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When
parcels of land pass from one generation to the next, they often
carry unresolved problems that families or individuals are left
to settle. By exercising open communication and creative thinking,
family members can often arrive at workable consensus. FLC helps
resolve land issues through family meeting processes, facilitation,
and mediation. No matter how complex the issues, two goals are central
to FLC: assisting family members in arriving at their best possible
land use decisions, and preserving personal family heritage and
harmony.
The family meeting process is designed to promote consensus
and maintain momentum. A series of interviews and facilitated meetings
are scheduled according to issues and personal needs, with respect
for the family's privacy.
The professionally neutral facilitator/mediator is the cornerstone
of FLC's success. Olivia Boyce-Abel combines the skills of both
facilitator and mediator. Professional facilitators and professional
mediators are akin, but differ in significant aspects. A competent
facilitator will organize and focus meetings, lay ground rules,
and hear each person in an orderly fashion. A facilitator listens,
gives active feedback, and provides recognition to all participants
while maintaining impartiality. A competent mediator has
all of the facilitator's skills but is additionally trained to help
family members:
- Solve problems
- Empathize with varying viewpoints
- Resolve conflict
- Reach consensus
- Achieve a fair, equitable balance
- Create harmony
- Preserve and strengthen family ties
The skill of an experienced professional mediator is often a critical
factor in helping to resolve land use issues while creating and
preserving family accord. |